About Megan
My Personal Story
Growing up, I was highly inquisitive and sexually curious, but I found there was no realistic, relatable sex education or advice available to help guide me.
I longed to learn more about what makes people - including myself - satisfied romantically and sexually.
Like many of us, I had to learn about sex and relationships with trial-and-error as I went on my own, experimenting with friends, and later with loves.
I found it deeply frustrating that there was no appropriate forum to even talk about sex, and a total lack of meaningful support available to me. I made it my mission to create a safe place for people to explore their sexuality, and help them create better connections full of curiosity, pleasure, and intimacy.
I want every one of my clients to have connected, sexually-satisfying, expressive, creative, lasting relationships.
My Professional Background
Before I started my current practice I held many “traditional” jobs throughout my journey: technology teacher with a university teaching degree, yoga and dance instructor, addictive behavior counselor, bartender, vintage boutique co-owner, public relations manager … all of which allowed me to observe and learn what makes people tick, their desires, needs and drives.
Yet, I still had my own intense desire to help people actualize the true potential in their relationships, and in their entire lives. I made the decision to quit my PR job, and became a sex, dating, and relationship coach through the Somatica® Institute, and a Certified Sex Educator through San Francisco Sex Information (SFSI).
As powerful and helpful as these trainings were, I knew in my heart there was another way - a better way - of helping people that aligned with my personal vision and mission … so I decided to start my own independent practice of sex, dating, and relationship coaching more than a decade ago.
Working closely with hundreds of beautiful and fascinating clients over these years, I came to the realization that there is a clear path to actualizing your true potential that everyone can deeply benefit from...
…that realization is what led me
to create my own unique approach
I call the ECEC® System.
ECEC® Method
Whether you want to be a better date, lover or partner, the ECEC Method® is a step-by-step, practical and proven system that will give you the skills you need to transform every aspect of your life so that you can actualize the sexual connections and intimate relationships you desire and deserve.
ECEC® consists of 4 essential skills:
Emotional Presence
Practicing Emotional Presence increases your self awareness and ability to articulate feelings. It also forces you to get out of your head and into your body. It allows you to plant yourself in the present moment where everything happens.
Courage
Practicing Courage teaches you to take action in the face of fear. The goal isn’t to become fearless, it is to see your fears for what they are and to act courageously in the face of them. As you become more courageous you will take more risks and get more rewards in return.
Erotic Embodiment
Practicing Erotic Embodiment nurtures your internal fire so you can wield your power. As your passion soars, lean into this power and trust where it will take you.
Confidence
The first three principles culminate in this last principle. Practicing Confidence allows you to trust your passion and take action in every aspect of your life. Once you no longer have to look at the map you can trust in your ability to get wherever you need to go. The journey is truly the destination at this point.
What is the ECEC® System?
Whether your goal is to be a better date, lover, or partner, my ECEC® System is a step-by-step, practical, hands-on approach that teaches you the skills you need to transform every aspect of your life so that you can actualize the sexual connections and intimate relationships you desire and deserve.
My ECEC® System consists of 4 essential skills:
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Emotional Vulnerability
Learning Emotional Vulnerability increases your self-awareness and ability to articulate your feelings. It forces you to get “out of your head and into your body”. It allows you to place yourself fully in the present moment, where everything happens.
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Courage
Developing Courage teaches you to take action in the face of fear. The goal is to see your fears for what they are and act courageously in spite of them. As you become more courageous, you find yourself taking more risks and receiving more rewards in return.
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Erotic Embodiment
Practicing Erotic Embodiment enables you to be “totally present in your body” so that you can bring to life your natural sexual energy, your “internal fire”. Once you are comfortable with this erotic power inside you, your passion and sexual experiences manifest at their highest levels.
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Confidence
The first three skills synergize and culminate in this powerful fourth. Building Confidence lets you trust your passion and take action in every aspect of your life. Once you no longer have to “look at the map”, you have the ability to get wherever you need to go. The journey has truly become the destination at this point!
Are you ready?
Ready to start your journey to the best sex, dating, and relationships of your life?
Reach out to me and let’s see if we’re a good fit to work together.
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